Do you know how it feels to always have to deal with somebody who's not of the same wavelength, and is always three steps behind? Oh so exhausting. Because this person will always not be able to catch the meaning of your words (not even about reading between the lines). Such people lack comprehension skills that they surprisingly did not gain with age, and of course they can only take in simple words because they're erm. How should I put it gently? For a 25 year old, you're daft.
And that's why I don't like to argue with such people because what they say don't make sense and what I say don't resonate with them as well. We're on different pages and they just don't get it. Always yapping away and being self righteous when they're just not getting the point.
Not trying to sound elitist or anything, but really, either improve your English to hold proper argumentative conversations, or just shut up and hide in your hole. Or think through your words and be logical. Although that may be hard on you because some people are just born without it.
This is the importance of getting a partner who's not stupid. Note to self: find a smart guy. He can be ugly but he can't be dumb (ok la not too ugly lol). I need someone who stimulates me intellectually and actually engages in constructive conversations/arguments with me (not about immature staring games lol). Either someone whom I can connect with on an intellectual level, or someone who's damn smart and can shut me up everytime lol. Then I'll just be my 小女人 and cook and clean lol.
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